You are going to tell me who I AM....

I am so disgusted with hearing from everyone who they think I am. They not directly saying it to me, but they seem to just lump all Black Men together with their comments. The worst of them, Black Women ironically.. The fact is, the Black Women fears a responsible Black Man the most. He represents the image of their father to much. Who in most instances left them and their mother, so they have a natural resentment towards that image. You are not going to tell me who I am!!! Especially since you can't give me the common respect of sitting down with me and asking a few question about my life and how I see the world.